Holiday: A Period of Unlimited Parenting Experience

The teacher’s comments may be:

Oh! There is something terribly wrong with your child!

Your child surprisingly made the best result in her class

Your child is careless. He lost all his books and personal belongings.

Your child was not serious at all during this term. She didn’t submit most of her assignments!

Your child kept serving punishment for various offenses.

Your child is the only one in my class who cannot write all the letters of the alphabet.

Whatever the teacher’s comment may be about a child (positive or negative), whatever academic result a child obtains (poor or excellent),a passionate parent should tactfully and patiently get closer, love more and talk more with the child in order to get into the innermost thoughts of a child to achieve firsthand knowledge of his or her activities and experiences while in school.

The holiday period avails parents and their children wonderful opportunities to share experiences. Parents should be able to extract information about school experiences from the child in a relaxed atmosphere. It may even be at the playground. In the process of close interaction with the child, a great parent will have clearer appreciation the child’s challenges while in school as well as areas in which the child improved or declined in all aspects of the child’s development.

The child should be commended for improvements achieved. Parental support should be provided in the areas of decline after a proper diagnosis of the contributing factors.  For instance, a parent may consider changing school for a child if the present school’s service delivery standard is low, holiday lessons could be arranged to provide support for the child in weak subjects, the child can be helped in organising a daily routine timetable and cupboards with locks can be provided to help curb loss of personal items.

Parents should therefore cherish and utilize every holiday moment as a great parenting opportunity. It is therefore not proper for children to always be sent on holiday visits to distance places. As much as possible, parents’ leave periods should be planned to coincide with the periods when children are on holidays.

 

-Uchenna N. Nduka

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3 thoughts on “Holiday: A Period of Unlimited Parenting Experience

  1. My son hasn’t started school yet but am hoping he will be able to learn easily. He is quite slow so far and his speech is also slow. He still can’t speak clearly but he will be turning 3 in December.

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